disarming

To deprive of weapons; to deprive of the means of attack or defense; to render defenseless.

To deprive of the means or the disposition to harm; to render harmless or innocuous

“to disarm a man's wrath”

To lay down arms; to stand down.

To reduce one's own military forces.

To disable the security systems on.

Charming; likely to put one at ease.

“a disarming smile”